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Tosca Langbert

Tosca’s Tips for Exploration in High School

Discovering New Paths: The Art of Embracing Exploration

Life is a journey filled with opportunities to learn, grow, and uncover new passions. By stepping outside your comfort zone and trying new experiences, you not only enrich your perspective but also build a unique toolkit of skills and insights. Whether it’s recognizing transferable skills from unexpected places, blending seemingly unrelated interests, or experimenting with small, low-risk steps, the process of exploration can lead to surprising and fulfilling outcomes.


In this blog, SK counselor Tosca dives into practical ways to approach new experiences with curiosity and intentionality. From finding energizing activities to embracing what makes you different, we’ll explore how each step contributes to personal growth and helps you craft a story that’s authentically yours. Along the way, you’ll discover the value of focusing on the journey, connecting with open-minded individuals, and building your own “trinket box” of meaningful experiences. Ready to start exploring? Let’s dive in!


  1. Think About Transferable Skills

    When trying something new, consider what skills you might gain that could apply to other areas of your life. For example, volunteering at a zoo might teach you communication skills, patience, and responsibility—qualities that are valuable in any field.

  2. Look for Niches That Blend Different Sides of You

    Find ways to combine seemingly unrelated interests. Do you love art and politics? Look into political cartooning, graphic design for activism, or even writing op-eds for your school newspaper. These unique intersections can make you stand out and feel more authentically “you.”

  3. Notice What Energizes You

    Reflect on activities that leave you feeling excited or fulfilled. These can reveal your true passions and help guide future choices. Try to incorporate more of these energizing activities into your life, even if they don’t seem “practical.”

  4. Do Background Reading and Keep Up with the News

    Staying informed on topics you care about helps you make connections and find opportunities in those areas. For example, if you’re interested in environmental science, reading about climate issues can give you ideas for local projects or internships.

  5. Start with Small, Low-Risk Experiments

    You don’t have to make a major commitment right away. Test out an interest by volunteering for a short-term project, taking a weekend workshop, or even shadowing someone in the field. These small steps can open doors without a huge time commitment.

  6. Embrace What Makes You Different

    If you have a unique background or perspective, find ways to weave it into what you do. Unconventional experiences can lead to unexpected insights and allow you to stand out naturally.

  7. Get Comfortable with Not Knowing the Outcome

    Trying new things often means stepping into the unknown. Embrace the fact that some paths may not lead exactly where you expect, and see each experience as valuable, even if it doesn’t “fit” your original plan.

  8. Set Goals Focused on Growth, Not Perfection

    Rather than aiming to excel at everything right away, set goals around learning something new or meeting new people. These growth-focused goals can reduce the pressure and make experiences more enjoyable.

  9. Ask People You Admire About Their Own “Trinket Boxes”

    Talk to people whose careers or lives you admire and ask about their varied experiences. You’ll often find that their paths weren’t linear either; it can be inspiring to see how different “trinkets” can add up over time.

  10. Build a Personal “Trinket Box” Journal

    Create a journal or notes app where you track each new experience, noting what you learned, what you enjoyed, and what you found challenging. Over time, you’ll see patterns that help you understand your own journey.

  11. Value the Process as Much as the Outcome

    Keep in mind that not everything needs to lead to a big achievement. Trying new things for the sake of curiosity and self-discovery is often rewarding in itself and can make you feel more connected to your own story.

  12. Surround Yourself with Open-Minded People

    Spend time with people who also enjoy exploring and are open to new experiences. These friends can inspire you, support your growth, and keep you motivated on your journey.

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